I was a stay-at-home mom for 9 years and there were so many things that I loved about being home with my babies and I will forever cherish my time with them. BUT, that doesn’t mean it was easy. I remember feeling so utterly alone. We had recently moved to a new town when my first baby was born and I had very few friends and zero family around. My husband worked a huge amount of hours and was often away for weeks at a time. I struggled with loneliness, isolation and all around wishing I could have a conversation with an adult, a friend. I remember at times wanting so badly for someone to tell me they understood how I was feeling and that everything was going to be ok. I needed to hear that things would get easier and that even though the house was an absolute disaster, the dishes were dirty, and I couldn’t remember the last time I showered, I was doing a good job. That all the things I doubted were normal things to doubt as a mom. I really just needed a friend. I know looking back now how much a supportive group of mamas would have helped me in the dark times and also helped celebrate the good times! I know it would have given me confidence, hope, and a sense of belonging. I know it would have made me a happier and better mom.